How does one succeed in life?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

Making more friends is a goal.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

How do you know how physically attractive you actually are?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Why would you think you're fit to be a model?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Can you share a lesson that you learned later in life and how it has impacted your current lifestyle, mentality, or attitude?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

When a black man and a white woman have a child, does the child become white? If a white man and a black woman have a child, does the child become black?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

That's it for today.

What I need from you?

Why is America so fucked up?

Ask yourself:

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

I'm looking for an answer from people who consider themselves "Gender Critical", or transphobic, or TERFs, and my question is this - Why would you refuse to use the pronouns someone wants? What does it cost you? Where's the harm?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Procrastinates a lot.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Does not procrastinate.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.